WHY YOU SHOULDN'T BE NEGATIVE:
Over a year ago, I met a very bitter 50 year old short woman in Rochester. Every time I see her, she is slamming, backstabbing and cutting others down. Very unhappy person. You could just tell by looking at her face. Weathered, never smiling, not happy about life, mostly unemployed, living still at home with her mother at over 50; no she is not taking care of her mother, her mother is taking care of her. Her so called friends, always change every six months. As so many others and to include myself, we have stopped associating with such a disgruntled, bitter and ugly demeanor individual.
Moral of the story, look into causing trouble and you will become so bitter, so ugly with hate, that no one will want to be part of your program.
Laugh, enjoy life and for God's sake, stop complaining.